Why Discovering Your 'Why' Is the No. 1 Business Move And what to do when you don't have one -- yet.

If you've ever spent time around kids, you've been subjected to a barrage of the most classic of childhood queries: "Why?"

Even from a young age, we know intuitively that the motive behind an action is the most important piece of any story. When it comes to your business -- whether you've already launched or if you're still in the whiteboard phase -- knowing your "why" will help you stay committed to your dream and help others get on board, too.

The right reasons

"He who has a why can endure any how." -- Frederick Nietzsche

There are many reasons why people become entrepreneurs: personal satisfaction, creative independence or financial autonomy -- the list goes on. Yet all of these have one thing in common. At the core, they all are about freedom.

That freedom can come in many different forms: the freedom to make changes without waiting for corporate green lights, the freedom to offer a product or service that does business differently or maybe the literal freedom to actually make that dentist appointment once and for all.

What is it that drives you? The reason probably isn't money -- at least it shouldn't be. There's a reason that career counselors across the country ask the same time-old question: "If money were no object, what would you do?"

Money isn't enough

"The siren call for many entrepreneurs isn't money, it's freedom. The freedom to chart your own path, the freedom to build what you want with the people you love." -- Andrew Wilkinson, Founder of MetaLab and Flow

As the owner of your company, you can set your own targets and standards. And while the freedom of not having anyone standing in your way can be invigorating, the stress of knowing there is no one to blame for any failures can be too much to bear. This is when your "why" becomes imperative.

If you aren't 100 percent committed to making your vision a reality, you won't be impassioned enough to nurture your business through its inevitable growing pains. Businesses rarely make money right off the bat, so the dream of money alone will not be reason enough to see it through. Don't trade in the shackles of your corporate day job for a gilded cubicle of your own making.

If a paycheck is just a means to end, how do you know when you've reached it? Is it after five years? 10? Or when you finally make a down payment on a house? The more material possessions you acquire -- a car, a house, that timeshare in Vermont -- the more that steady, safe paycheck becomes a crutch. So ask yourself, "Why am I doing this?"

Once you find an answer that speaks to your soul, the next question should be, "What am I waiting for?"

Find your story. Find your coverage

"You can only become truly accomplished at something you love. Don't make money your goal. Instead pursue the things you love doing, and then do them so well that people can't take their eyes off of you." -- Maya Angelou

The great thing about passion is that it's infectious. And a great story doesn't have to be dramatic, just genuine. One of my favorite branding stories of all time is for a product called Solar Recover. I believe the story on the back of the bottle used words like "nuked all day in the sun" and "scaly lizard" to explain the need that drove them to create their product.

If you visit their website, they even admit to intentionally burning themselves so they could test out their product and leave samples at the hotels where they were staying. Now that's commitment.

With so many social marketing campaigns, customers want to feel like they are supporting a cause, not just buying a product. If your audience knows that you love what you do, not only will they be more confident that you've made the best possible product, they'll want to support your enthusiasm by giving you their business.

Your story is also your link to your core principles. If you set out to make a product with all natural ingredients, keep that in mind as your business begins to grow. Don't compromise the integrity of your product or you'll undermine your customer's trust and everything you've accomplished.

Not every passion is a potential business -- and that's OK

Perhaps you love yoga and your friends are always saying you should become an instructor. That's great if you really enjoy the idea of teaching others. But if the reason you like yoga is because it allows you a quiet escape from the rest of the world, then there's nothing wrong with keeping it all to yourself.

Not sure what your passion is?

"There is no passion to be found playing small -- in settling for a life that is less than the one you are capable of living." -- Nelson Mandela

Do some market research. Poll your closest friends and family (only people you trust to give you an honest answer) and ask them what they think your strengths are. Not only can it be a huge confidence booster to hear how wonderful they think you are, but they may come up with skills you didn't even realize you had.

Another thing is to ask yourself what sorts of things people ask you for help with. Does your tech savvy make you the first person people call when they're thinking of buying a new computer? Do you frequently help family members write letters or improve their résumés? Maybe you are the best at finding great airline deals or your broad perspective means people consult your opinion before making a big financial decision.

Whatever it is, think about those things you do for free and extrapolate out to see where a potential business could be born.

Another simple yet powerful exercise is to follow the advice of American self-help author, Steve Pavlina. He says to get a piece of paper and ask yourself, "What's my purpose in life?" Write down an answer. Write another one and keep writing answers until one of them makes you cry. That's your purpose.

Lastly, keep in mind these words from Marie Forleo, host and founder of MarieTV: "Clarity comes from engagement, not thought." While visualization is great, it can only take you so far. Dreaming of smelling the ocean as you write your novel in Cape Cod may have sounded great -- except you forgot about all those flies.

I once heard of a young ophthalmologist who had to change careers because she couldn't stand being so close to people's faces all day. It sounds ridiculous, but there are some aspects of reality that visualization just won't cover. You owe it to yourself to get out there and start doing what it is you say you want to do. If it truly is your passion, getting your feet wet will only solidify your resolve and make the transition to becoming a professional that much easier.

Passion is contagious

When your enthusiasm is palpable, people want a ticket on your happy train. The key to harnessing that passion is understanding your "why." Why are you passionate about windsurfing? Is it because it helped you lose 30 lbs, get off all your medications and have a new lease on life?

That's your "why," and that's the story you need to share with your customers. You deserve a life you love, so get going and dream on.